“I have basically been here all my life. I lived in the East End once but we came back here. My mama loves the West End. It was pretty cool, growing up. It’s not about where you live but how you live. My mama didn’t let us run the streets. What people say they see, I don’t really see. It’s about how you run your environment. With my kids, I don’t let them run the streets. It’s pretty cool to me. If you don’t bother anybody, they won’t bother us.
We need more people to come together. We need a place for the kids to be active. We got the Boys & Girls’ Club but it ain’t how it used to be. I would like to see the West End more healthy. We need more healthy food spots because they keep giving us all this bad stuff. I’m the go-to healthy person.
I like to promote good health and that’s physical, mental and financial health. I’m all about bringing black people in the West End to be more in tune with their spiritual health. We need healthy relationships within families. We just need to be healthy.
I’m more passionate about physical health. I work out every day and I would love to see people out here working out, too. I walk around the West End every morning and I would love to see more people doing it.
People look at mental health and automatically think that someone is crazy. Everybody can see a counselor. Black people can see a therapist! We need somebody to talk to, as well. We all need to be able to vent without talking to someone that will judge them because a lot of people feel like the people they’re around will judge them. They’ll just keep a lot of stuff in and that can make a person go crazy.
I’m more spiritual than religious. I don’t want to put God and religion together because I feel like everyone has their own outlook. Everybody needs a connection with God, outside of religion. Even if you pray every day, that helps - that mentally helps. I’m not going to put everything on the church. I understand that some people do need the church to go to because if they didn’t have the church, they wouldn’t do what they do. They need a sanctuary but everybody doesn’t need one. Some people can be in the comfort of their own homes and still have a relationship with God. I just don’t feel like you have to be this religious person that goes to church every Sunday and pay your tithes. You don’t have to do that to be in-tune with God.
I got three kids and they are who I do it for. I want them to do everything I did better. I even want them to eat right and have better eating habits than me. I want them to have better spiritual and mental habits.
Growing up, I wasn’t always the best kid. I lost my kids because my son was taking after me and his daddy. I was doing things, of course, because I was around his daddy. So, it wasn’t like I was a bad person. I just met a guy and we’re being kids but my son took after us. He was coming up and doing things and at one point I lost focus and I gave him a whooping because he did something really bad. I got my kids taken away and I had to overcome that because I was just out here and I didn’t have any other reason to be out here without my kids. I had to get them back and I did everything I was supposed to do. I overcame it and got them back and they’re not going anywhere else.
In that process, I had to take care of my mental health. I had to get more in-tune with myself. I started seeing a counselor and I realized that it wasn’t as bad as everyone thought it was. It was what I needed. Everything that I been through got me where I am today and I feel like I’m on a good and healthy path.
My motto is, “Either you’re gonna build or bullshit?”. Are you gonna do better or stay in the same position that you’re in? Are you working to be a better person? Every day you get a chance to be better than before. If everybody did their part, it would be better. So, are you gonna build or bullshit?” - Antwanette, Russell